Let’s be honest: not everyone loves being in front of the camera. In fact, most of my couples start their inquiry by saying, “We’re awkward” or “We don’t know how to act” (Spoiler alert: you’re not awkward—you just haven’t had the right person guiding you yet!)

If you’re a little camera shy, like myself, or wondering how to look natural in photos, this post will walk you through my favorite tips to help you feel relaxed, confident, and maybe even enjoy being photographed.

1. Choose a Photographer You Click With

Chemistry matters. If you feel comfortable with the person behind the camera, you’ll feel more comfortable in front of it too. Look for a photographer who feels more like a friend than a stranger giving you directions.

👉 Pro Tip: Book an engagement session before your wedding day if its not already included in their wedding packages. It’s a great way to practice being photographed together and get used to how it feels in front of the camera.

2. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera

One of the easiest ways to look natural in photos is to stop thinking about the lens. The best moments happen when you’re simply enjoying each other—whether that’s whispering a silly secret, holding hands, or walking together. By focusing on your partner, you’ll create real, candid moments (and avoid overthinking your smile).

3. Keep Moving: Natural Poses for Photos

Still poses can feel stiff, especially if you’re nervous. Instead, we’ll keep things moving! I like to tell my couples to think I am taking a video rather than an actual photo! Walking, twirling, hugging, laughing… little movements help you relax and bring your personality through. If you want to know how to pose naturally for pictures, the secret is simple: keep moving.

4. Wear Something You Feel Confident In

If you’re constantly adjusting your shirt or worrying about your shoes, it’ll show in the photos. Choose outfits that are comfortable, flattering, and make you feel like your best self. Feeling good in your clothes is one of the easiest ways to feel confident in front of the camera.

5. Trust the Process

You don’t need to know how to pose—that’s my job. Your only role? Show up, be yourself, and let me guide you. The best photos happen when you relax, laugh, and simply live in the moment.

At the end of the day, photos aren’t about looking perfect—they’re about remembering how you felt. My goal is always to create a space where you feel comfortable, confident, and maybe even have a little fun along the way.

👉 Nervous about your engagement photos or wedding portraits? Reach out!—I promise, you’ll leave saying, “That was actually fun!”

Let’s be honest: not everyone loves being in front of the camera. In fact, most of my couples start their inquiry by saying, “We’re awkward” or “We don’t know how to act” (Spoiler alert: you’re not awkward—you just haven’t had the right person guiding you yet!)

If you’re a little camera shy, like myself, or wondering how to look natural in photos, this post will walk you through my favorite tips to help you feel relaxed, confident, and maybe even enjoy being photographed.

1. Choose a Photographer You Click With

Chemistry matters. If you feel comfortable with the person behind the camera, you’ll feel more comfortable in front of it too. Look for a photographer who feels more like a friend than a stranger giving you directions.

👉 Pro Tip: Book an engagement session before your wedding day if its not already included in their wedding packages. It’s a great way to practice being photographed together and get used to how it feels in front of the camera.

2. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera

One of the easiest ways to look natural in photos is to stop thinking about the lens. The best moments happen when you’re simply enjoying each other—whether that’s whispering a silly secret, holding hands, or walking together. By focusing on your partner, you’ll create real, candid moments (and avoid overthinking your smile).

3. Keep Moving: Natural Poses for Photos

Still poses can feel stiff, especially if you’re nervous. Instead, we’ll keep things moving! I like to tell my couples to think I am taking a video rather than an actual photo! Walking, twirling, hugging, laughing… little movements help you relax and bring your personality through. If you want to know how to pose naturally for pictures, the secret is simple: keep moving.

4. Wear Something You Feel Confident In

If you’re constantly adjusting your shirt or worrying about your shoes, it’ll show in the photos. Choose outfits that are comfortable, flattering, and make you feel like your best self. Feeling good in your clothes is one of the easiest ways to feel confident in front of the camera.

5. Trust the Process

You don’t need to know how to pose—that’s my job. Your only role? Show up, be yourself, and let me guide you. The best photos happen when you relax, laugh, and simply live in the moment.

At the end of the day, photos aren’t about looking perfect—they’re about remembering how you felt. My goal is always to create a space where you feel comfortable, confident, and maybe even have a little fun along the way.

👉 Nervous about your engagement photos or wedding portraits? Reach out!—I promise, you’ll leave saying, “That was actually fun!”